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Read more about the article Episode 122 – Kids Don’t Have To Ruin Your Sex Life

Episode 122 – Kids Don’t Have To Ruin Your Sex Life

  • Post published:August 21, 2020

One topic I hear often from my clients is that their kids are ruining their sex life.  They are so exhuasted from being a mom, that sex is the last…

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Read more about the article Episode 66 – Attachment & Emotional Safety

Episode 66 – Attachment & Emotional Safety

  • Post published:July 26, 2019

How can you feel emotionally safe in your relationship? How can you try to help your spouse feel emotionally safe?

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Conscious Parent Podcast

  • Post published:January 24, 2019

I was interviewed by Alex Cantone of the Conscious Parent Podcast on overcoming divorce, blending families, and parenting a child with Bipolar II.  Listen to the episode.

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Cultivating Connection & Desire

Episode 34 – Cultivating Connection & Desire

  • Post published:December 14, 2018

So many women think they don’t want to have sex because they are tired or “touched out” at the end of the day. What was once a vital and important part of the marriage has taken a back seat to life and child rearing. In this episode, we examine how the thoughts you are telling yourself are killing your sex drive…and how you can get it back!

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How to Fight Fair in your Marriage, Communication

Episode 29 – How to Fight Fair in your Marriage

  • Post published:November 9, 2018

All couples have disagreements, but the ones who learn to solve their problems by fighting differently and fair are the ones who tend to stick together. In this episode I share 5 steps to fighting fair with your spouse.

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Improving Communication in Marriage

Episode 28 – The Marriage Inventory with Celeste Davis

  • Post published:November 2, 2018

Celeste Davis (MarriageLaboratory.com), joins me in discussing different experiments she has conducted in her marriage to improve communication.

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Marriage Laboratory

  • Post published:November 1, 2018

I was interviewed by Celeste Davis of Marriage Laboratory on our false expectation of happiness in life and in marriage.  Listen to the episode.

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Read more about the article Episode 27 – Empathetic Listening

Episode 27 – Empathetic Listening

  • Post published:October 26, 2018

One of the keys to communication in marriage, is communicating well during a conflict.  Conflict is inevitable in any marriage.  Learning how to resolve those conflicts is key to sustaining…

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Read more about the article Episode 26 – The Compound Effect In Marriage

Episode 26 – The Compound Effect In Marriage

  • Post published:October 19, 2018

“By Small and simple things are great things brought to pass.” The little things we do to build and strengthen our marriage add up. They compound. What small choices are you making daily that contribute the demise or the strengthening of your marriage?

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Read more about the article Episode 24 – Are We Really Meant To Be

Episode 24 – Are We Really Meant To Be

  • Post published:October 5, 2018

Have you ever thought “Did I marry the wrong person?” or “Are we really meant to be?” Just about every married person I know has had those thoughts. But in this episode, we talk about why those thoughts aren’t serving you and your marriage.

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Read more about the article Episode 20 – Quit Blaming Others For How You Feel

Episode 20 – Quit Blaming Others For How You Feel

  • Post published:September 7, 2018

Part of being an emotional adult is taking responsibility for our own emotions.  Even in our marriage.  It is not our partners responsibility for making us feel loved, secure, and…

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Read more about the article Episode 16 – What is a life coach and why do I need one?

Episode 16 – What is a life coach and why do I need one?

  • Post published:August 10, 2018

I get asked the question all the time, What is a Life Coach and Why do I need one? On today’s podcast I will tell you what I do and why EVERYONE needs a life coach!

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    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage

    Most of us have heard of the seven deadly sins, but I’d never heard them reframed quite like this. In this episode, I dig into Elizabeth Oldfield’s idea that these old sins aren’t really about morality checklists, they’re about disconnection, and I bring that lens straight into marriage and the bedroom. The part I can’t stop thinking about is a mistranslation in Matthew 5 that’s convinced a lot of good, married people they should feel ashamed just for wanting their own spouse. I also discuss how President Benson’s “Beware of Pride” talk works within Oldfield’s work, and for every pattern that pulls you apart, I give you what actually brings you back together. I invite you to listen and see if anything makes you stop and think about your own relationship. You might be surprised.

    Here are the questions for this week’s episode.

    Here is the link to the book I talk about, Fully Alive.

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    Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On
    August 14, 2026
    Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda
    August 7, 2026
    Episode 432 – The Natural Man Was Never About Your Sexuality
    July 31, 2026
    Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder
    July 24, 2026
    Episode 430 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Him
    July 17, 2026
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    Episode 428 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – The Hundred-Year Story
    July 3, 2026
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