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Menopause

Episode 160 – Sex And Menopause: An Interview with Cami Hurst

  • Post published:May 14, 2021
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I got asked a question that I didn’t know the answer to so I brought in an expert! The question was about sex and menopause. Is it all over once…

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Single to Sealed Podcast Interview

Single To Sealed Podcast

  • Post published:April 5, 2021
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I was interviewed by Briahnna and Jerry for the Single To Sealed podcast where we talked about the six principles of sexual health and how they can be our guide…

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Mamas In Midlife Podcast

  • Post published:January 20, 2021
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Sex & Marriage in Midlife In this episode I talk with Lisa Lewis about what sex can be like in midlife.  Listen here.

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Reasons

Episode 128 – The Four Reasons Why We Have Sex

  • Post published:October 2, 2020
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I think we have covered all the reasons we don’t want sex.  But have you ever wondered why people do have the desire for sex? It is more than for…

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Read more about the article Episode 122 – Kids Don’t Have To Ruin Your Sex Life

Episode 122 – Kids Don’t Have To Ruin Your Sex Life

  • Post published:August 21, 2020
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One topic I hear often from my clients is that their kids are ruining their sex life.  They are so exhuasted from being a mom, that sex is the last…

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Read more about the article Episode 120 – He Just Wants Sex

Episode 120 – He Just Wants Sex

  • Post published:August 7, 2020
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Your brain probably tells you your husband just wants sex - and that it has very little to do with you.  What if you were wrong?  What if it actually…

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The Limitless Female Podcast

  • Post published:June 16, 2020
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  I was interviewed by fellow coach Emylee McIntyre for the Limitless Female Podcast.  We discussed sex when you have depression and how to create desire.  Listen here.

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Read more about the article Episode 95 – When You’re Too Exhausted For Sex

Episode 95 – When You’re Too Exhausted For Sex

  • Post published:February 14, 2020
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What excuses do you make to not have sex?

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Read more about the article Episode 94 – 6 Steps To a Healthy Sexual Relationship

Episode 94 – 6 Steps To a Healthy Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:February 7, 2020
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6 Principles of Healthy Sexuality and what a healthy relationship looks like.

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Read more about the article Episode 90 – Desire Like Nephi

Episode 90 – Desire Like Nephi

  • Post published:January 10, 2020
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How do you react when approached for sex?

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Read more about the article Episode 89 – 10 Mistakes We Make With Sex

Episode 89 – 10 Mistakes We Make With Sex

  • Post published:January 3, 2020
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10 Mistakes we all make with sex.

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Read more about the article Episode 88 – Sexy New Year

Episode 88 – Sexy New Year

  • Post published:December 27, 2019
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What do you want your sex life to look like in the New Year?

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen

    Have you ever had the experience where your spouse walks past you in the kitchen and doesn’t even acknowledge you? Or when it seems like they’d rather scroll on their phone than talk to you? In this episode, I break down what it really means to feel desired in marriage and why being wanted is different from being needed. I explain how desire shows up through thoughts, words, actions, and emotional presence, and how many couples misinterpret or block desire without realizing it. I also walk through common reasons desire fades, including exhaustion, resentment, fear of rejection, and misunderstandings about how desire works differently for men and women. Here is what I want you to hear: desire often grows through small, intentional actions rather than waiting to feel it first. With a practical invitation at the end, this episode is full of real ways to really desire your spouse and have them feel desired again. to shift connection and intimacy.

    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
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    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
    February 13, 2026
    Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive
    February 6, 2026
    Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
    January 30, 2026
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    January 23, 2026
    Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women
    January 16, 2026
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    January 9, 2026
    Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering
    January 2, 2026
    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex
    December 26, 2025
    Episode 400 – Why Flirting Can Backfire
    December 19, 2025
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