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Menopause

Episode 160 – Sex And Menopause: An Interview with Cami Hurst

  • Post published:May 14, 2021

I got asked a question that I didn’t know the answer to so I brought in an expert! The question was about sex and menopause. Is it all over once…

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Single to Sealed Podcast Interview

Single To Sealed Podcast

  • Post published:April 5, 2021

I was interviewed by Briahnna and Jerry for the Single To Sealed podcast where we talked about the six principles of sexual health and how they can be our guide…

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Read more about the article Mamas In Midlife Podcast

Mamas In Midlife Podcast

  • Post published:January 20, 2021

Sex & Marriage in Midlife In this episode I talk with Lisa Lewis about what sex can be like in midlife.  Listen here.

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Reasons

Episode 128 – The Four Reasons Why We Have Sex

  • Post published:October 2, 2020

I think we have covered all the reasons we don’t want sex.  But have you ever wondered why people do have the desire for sex? It is more than for…

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Read more about the article Episode 122 – Kids Don’t Have To Ruin Your Sex Life

Episode 122 – Kids Don’t Have To Ruin Your Sex Life

  • Post published:August 21, 2020

One topic I hear often from my clients is that their kids are ruining their sex life.  They are so exhuasted from being a mom, that sex is the last…

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Read more about the article Episode 120 – He Just Wants Sex

Episode 120 – He Just Wants Sex

  • Post published:August 7, 2020

Your brain probably tells you your husband just wants sex - and that it has very little to do with you.  What if you were wrong?  What if it actually…

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Read more about the article The Limitless Female Podcast

The Limitless Female Podcast

  • Post published:June 16, 2020

  I was interviewed by fellow coach Emylee McIntyre for the Limitless Female Podcast.  We discussed sex when you have depression and how to create desire.  Listen here.

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Read more about the article Episode 95 – When You’re Too Exhausted For Sex

Episode 95 – When You’re Too Exhausted For Sex

  • Post published:February 14, 2020

What excuses do you make to not have sex?

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Read more about the article Episode 94 – 6 Steps To a Healthy Sexual Relationship

Episode 94 – 6 Steps To a Healthy Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:February 7, 2020

6 Principles of Healthy Sexuality and what a healthy relationship looks like.

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Read more about the article Episode 90 – Desire Like Nephi

Episode 90 – Desire Like Nephi

  • Post published:January 10, 2020

How do you react when approached for sex?

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Read more about the article Episode 89 – 10 Mistakes We Make With Sex

Episode 89 – 10 Mistakes We Make With Sex

  • Post published:January 3, 2020

10 Mistakes we all make with sex.

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Read more about the article Episode 88 – Sexy New Year

Episode 88 – Sexy New Year

  • Post published:December 27, 2019

What do you want your sex life to look like in the New Year?

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 442 – Why Keeping Score Never Gets You What You Want

    Most of us keep score in our marriages without ever calling it that. We track who got up with the baby, who apologized first, how many times we reached over and got turned down. It starts as a way to get something to change, and it ends up making sure nothing does. In this episode I talk about what scorekeeping actually is, what it looks like around the house and in the bedroom, and why your count is almost always wrong. We look at the research on why you cannot see most of what your spouse contributes, how confirmation bias keeps a wrong count feeling accurate, the two places resentment comes from, and the over functioning and under functioning pattern sitting underneath a lot of this. Then we talk about what it takes to move a marriage back from transactional to an equal partnership.

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