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Read more about the article Episode 63  – Wanting More From Your Spouse

Episode 63 – Wanting More From Your Spouse

  • Post published:July 5, 2019

Why do we always want more than what we have? What happens when we get it?

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Read more about the article Episode 62 – Accepting Your Spouse’s Bad Behaviors

Episode 62 – Accepting Your Spouse’s Bad Behaviors

  • Post published:June 28, 2019

In today’s podcast, we discuss how learning to accept your spouse and loving them for who they are actually feels so much better and sets you free.

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Read more about the article Episode 59 – Self Regulation

Episode 59 – Self Regulation

  • Post published:June 7, 2019

How will regulating myself help my marriage?

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Read more about the article Episode 58  – How To Create An Amazing Marriage

Episode 58 – How To Create An Amazing Marriage

  • Post published:May 31, 2019

Want to know the secrets of how to create an amazing marriage? Find out how!

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Read more about the article Episode 57  – Believing New Thoughts

Episode 57 – Believing New Thoughts

  • Post published:May 24, 2019

A belief is just a thought you’ve practiced a lot.  It’s one you accept as truth.  But you can choose to believe whatever you want about yourself, your life, and…

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Read more about the article Episode 56 – Involuntary Thoughts

Episode 56 – Involuntary Thoughts

  • Post published:May 17, 2019

What should do you do about those pesky thoughts that just keep coming up?

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Episode 55 – The “What If” Game

  • Post published:May 10, 2019

Do you worry? In this episode, we talk about a little game I like to play that helps your brain see there is nothing to worry about after all.

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Episode 54 – How To Have A Great Mother’s Day

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How to have a great Mother's Day no matter your situation.

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Read more about the article Episode 50 – Developing a Better Relationship with Yourself

Episode 50 – Developing a Better Relationship with Yourself

  • Post published:April 5, 2019

What does your inner dialogue sound like?

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Read more about the article Episode 48 – When Things Don’t Go As Planned

Episode 48 – When Things Don’t Go As Planned

  • Post published:March 22, 2019

What can we choose to think and believe about our life when things are so different than what we wanted.

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Read more about the article Episode 47 – The Higher Desire Partner

Episode 47 – The Higher Desire Partner

  • Post published:March 15, 2019

Are you the higher desire partner in your relationship? In this episode, we discuss strategies to help you build the intimate relationship with your spouse that you’ve always wanted. Play…

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Read more about the article Episode 46 – You’ll Find Exactly What You Are Looking For

Episode 46 – You’ll Find Exactly What You Are Looking For

  • Post published:March 8, 2019

Your brain will find evidence of whatever it is you are looking for in your spouse and your marriage. So what are you looking for?

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    The men in my comments say the same thing over and over. She was one way before the wedding and another way after, and they feel like they were sold something that never got delivered. Women tell me the same thing from the other direction. He wanted to know everything about her before marriage, and now the only time he comes looking for her is when he wants sex. Both of them believe they got the bait and switch, and both of them are partly right. In this episode we look at what actually changed, which is not the people and not the facts, but the meanings underneath them. The way out is not deciding who lied. It is getting curious about what all of this means to the person you married.

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