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Read more about the article Episode 63  – Wanting More From Your Spouse

Episode 63 – Wanting More From Your Spouse

  • Post published:July 5, 2019
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Why do we always want more than what we have? What happens when we get it?

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Read more about the article Episode 62 – Accepting Your Spouse’s Bad Behaviors

Episode 62 – Accepting Your Spouse’s Bad Behaviors

  • Post published:June 28, 2019
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In today’s podcast, we discuss how learning to accept your spouse and loving them for who they are actually feels so much better and sets you free.

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Read more about the article Episode 59 – Self Regulation

Episode 59 – Self Regulation

  • Post published:June 7, 2019
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How will regulating myself help my marriage?

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Read more about the article Episode 58  – How To Create An Amazing Marriage

Episode 58 – How To Create An Amazing Marriage

  • Post published:May 31, 2019
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Want to know the secrets of how to create an amazing marriage? Find out how!

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Read more about the article Episode 57  – Believing New Thoughts

Episode 57 – Believing New Thoughts

  • Post published:May 24, 2019
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A belief is just a thought you’ve practiced a lot.  It’s one you accept as truth.  But you can choose to believe whatever you want about yourself, your life, and…

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Read more about the article Episode 56 – Involuntary Thoughts

Episode 56 – Involuntary Thoughts

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What should do you do about those pesky thoughts that just keep coming up?

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Episode 55 – The “What If” Game

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Do you worry? In this episode, we talk about a little game I like to play that helps your brain see there is nothing to worry about after all.

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Read more about the article Episode 54 – How To Have A Great Mother’s Day

Episode 54 – How To Have A Great Mother’s Day

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How to have a great Mother's Day no matter your situation.

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Read more about the article Episode 50 – Developing a Better Relationship with Yourself

Episode 50 – Developing a Better Relationship with Yourself

  • Post published:April 5, 2019
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What does your inner dialogue sound like?

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Read more about the article Episode 48 – When Things Don’t Go As Planned

Episode 48 – When Things Don’t Go As Planned

  • Post published:March 22, 2019
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What can we choose to think and believe about our life when things are so different than what we wanted.

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Read more about the article Episode 47 – The Higher Desire Partner

Episode 47 – The Higher Desire Partner

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Are you the higher desire partner in your relationship? In this episode, we discuss strategies to help you build the intimate relationship with your spouse that you’ve always wanted. Play…

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Read more about the article Episode 46 – You’ll Find Exactly What You Are Looking For

Episode 46 – You’ll Find Exactly What You Are Looking For

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Your brain will find evidence of whatever it is you are looking for in your spouse and your marriage. So what are you looking for?

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