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Episode 416 – Did You Marry the Right Person? The Only Two Things That Matter

  • Post published:April 10, 2026
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Have you ever caught yourself wondering, “Did I marry the right person?” I want to show you why that question is actually leading you in the wrong direction and what…

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Episode 415 – The ABC Loop: How to Stop Pressuring Your Spouse About Sex

  • Post published:April 3, 2026
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If you’ve been trying everything to fix your sex life and nothing seems to be working, this episode might feel a little uncomfortable, but also like a breath of fresh…

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Episode 414 – Mutual Masturbation

  • Post published:March 27, 2026
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In this episode, I talk about a sexual experience that doesn’t get discussed nearly enough, mutual masturbation, and why it can be so powerful for connection, communication, and intimacy in…

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Episode 413 – One-Sided Intimacy

  • Post published:March 20, 2026
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What if intimacy in your marriage didn’t actually depend on your spouse showing up first? In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful shift that changes how we think about emotional…

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Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire

  • Post published:March 13, 2026
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Many women assume their lack of desire means something is wrong with them, but in this episode, I am going to explain that the real issue is often passive sexuality.…

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Episode 411 – Is Your Sex Life Nourishing or Depleting?

  • Post published:March 6, 2026
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I want to talk about why sex can feel draining instead of connecting, even when it’s happening regularly, and how that disconnect quietly impacts a marriage. What does nourishing sex…

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Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire

  • Post published:February 27, 2026
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When a woman says she’d be completely fine never having sex again, I know something important has already broken. In this episode, I unpack why so many women in faith-based…

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Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen

  • Post published:February 20, 2026
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Have you ever had the experience where your spouse walks past you in the kitchen and doesn’t even acknowledge you? Or when it seems like they’d rather scroll on their…

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Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)

  • Post published:February 13, 2026
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In this episode of Sex for Saints, I walk through the six stages of marriage and explain why so many couples feel stuck, disconnected, or ready to give up around…

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Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive

  • Post published:February 6, 2026
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In this episode, I talk about a struggle I hear from women all the time but that rarely gets named out loud: loving your husband deeply while feeling disconnected from…

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Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex

  • Post published:January 30, 2026
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In this episode, I’ll talk about one of the most painful sexual dynamics I see in marriages: when a wife has been self-betraying for years by having sex she doesn’t…

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Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners

  • Post published:January 23, 2026
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In this episode, I talk about what happens when a spouse’s sexual past becomes a source of anxiety, comparison, guilt, or secrecy inside a marriage. I unpack why obsessive thoughts…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 416 – Did You Marry the Right Person? The Only Two Things That Matter

    Have you ever caught yourself wondering, “Did I marry the right person?” I want to show you why that question is actually leading you in the wrong direction and what matters so much more. In this episode, I break down the two things that truly determine whether a relationship will work, and what to do when you feel like you’re the only one trying. We’ll talk about how to shift the dynamic in your marriage, how to evaluate whether it’s sustainable, and how to stay grounded in your own integrity no matter what your spouse chooses. If you’ve been feeling stuck, discouraged, or unsure about your relationship, this conversation will give you a completely new way to look at it.

    Episode 416 – Did You Marry the Right Person? The Only Two Things That Matter
    Episode 416 – Did You Marry the Right Person? The Only Two Things That Matter
    April 10, 2026
    Episode 415 – The ABC Loop: How to Stop Pressuring Your Spouse About Sex
    April 3, 2026
    Episode 414 – Mutual Masturbation
    March 27, 2026
    Episode 413 – One-Sided Intimacy
    March 20, 2026
    Episode 412 – From Passive to Active: Owning Your Sexual Desire
    March 13, 2026
    Episode 411 – Is Your Sex Life Nourishing or Depleting?
    March 6, 2026
    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
    February 27, 2026
    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
    February 20, 2026
    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
    February 13, 2026
    Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive
    February 6, 2026
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