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bait and switch

Episode 441 – Bait and Switch

  • Post published:October 2, 2026

Somewhere along the way, a lot of married couples stop really kissing. It turns into a quick peck at the door, or it only shows up as the first step…

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why did my husband stop kissing me

Episode 440 – Why Couples Stop Kissing and How to Revive It

  • Post published:September 25, 2026

Somewhere along the way, a lot of married couples stop really kissing. It turns into a quick peck at the door, or it only shows up as the first step…

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why marriage changes never last

Episode 439 – Why the Changes You Make Never Last

  • Post published:September 18, 2026

Most couples who come to me have already tried. They have read the books, taken the courses, sat with a therapist, and walked out with a plan they both believed…

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women who can't receive pleasure in marriage, why wives check out during sex,

Episode 438 – The Art of Receiving: Why It’s So Hard and Why It Matters

  • Post published:September 11, 2026

Many conversations about improving your sex life focus on what men can do differently. But there's another side that rarely gets talked about: women who can't receive. In this episode,…

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six patterns that end marriages

Episode 437 – Six Patterns That End Marriages

  • Post published:September 4, 2026

After thousands of hours on Zoom with couples, I can usually tell by the second or third conversation which marriages are going to make it. It has almost nothing to…

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the seven deadly sins in marriage

Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage

  • Post published:August 28, 2026

Most of us have heard of the seven deadly sins, but I'd never heard them reframed quite like this. In this episode, I dig into Elizabeth Oldfield's idea that these…

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emotional safety in marriage, desire and emotional connection,

Episode 435 – The Paradoxes Running Your Sex Life

  • Post published:August 21, 2026

Most of the fights in your marriage aren't problems to solve. They're paradoxes, and we get stuck the moment we try to pick a side instead of accepting both. In…

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emotional safety

Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On

  • Post published:August 14, 2026

What if the problem in your sex life isn’t really about sex at all? In this episode, I’m talking about emotional safety and the powerful role it plays in both…

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emotional safety in marriage, affection without expectations,

Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda

  • Post published:August 7, 2026

Have you ever stopped yourself from feeling close to your spouse because you were worried about where it might lead? In this episode, I explore why arousal, or what the…

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Sex, Shame, and Faith: What Actually Helps Latter-day Saint and Christian Marriages

  • Post published:August 6, 2026

I believe sex is meant to be good, and I believe you can be fully sexual and fully faithful at the same time. Most of the men, women, and couples…

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natural man explained

Episode 432 – The Natural Man Was Never About Your Sexuality

  • Post published:July 31, 2026

In this final episode of my five-part series, I challenge the idea that our sexuality is the "natural man" and offer a new framework for understanding what King Benjamin was…

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Alma 39 explained

Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder

  • Post published:July 24, 2026

What if one of the most familiar teachings about sexuality deserves a second look? In this episode, I take a careful look at Alma 39 and the teaching that sexual…

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    Sex for Saints
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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 441 – Bait and Switch

    The men in my comments say the same thing over and over. She was one way before the wedding and another way after, and they feel like they were sold something that never got delivered. Women tell me the same thing from the other direction. He wanted to know everything about her before marriage, and now the only time he comes looking for her is when he wants sex. Both of them believe they got the bait and switch, and both of them are partly right. In this episode we look at what actually changed, which is not the people and not the facts, but the meanings underneath them. The way out is not deciding who lied. It is getting curious about what all of this means to the person you married.

    Get the worksheet at: www.amandalouder.com/podcast/441/

    Episode 441 – Bait and Switch
    Episode 441 – Bait and Switch
    October 2, 2026
    Episode 440 – Why Couples Stop Kissing and How to Revive It
    September 25, 2026
    Episode 439 – Why the Changes You Make Never Last
    September 18, 2026
    Episode 438 – The Art of Receiving: Why It’s So Hard and Why It Matters
    September 11, 2026
    Episode 437 – Six Patterns That End Marriages
    September 4, 2026
    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage
    August 28, 2026
    Episode 435 – The Paradoxes Running Your Sex Life
    August 21, 2026
    Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On
    August 14, 2026
    Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda
    August 7, 2026
    Episode 432 – The Natural Man Was Never About Your Sexuality
    July 31, 2026
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