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women who can't receive pleasure in marriage, why wives check out during sex,

Episode 438 – The Art of Receiving: Why It’s So Hard and Why It Matters

  • Post published:September 11, 2026

Many conversations about improving your sex life focus on what men can do differently. But there's another side that rarely gets talked about: women who can't receive. In this episode,…

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six patterns that end marriages

Episode 437 – Six Patterns That End Marriages

  • Post published:September 4, 2026

After thousands of hours on Zoom with couples, I can usually tell by the second or third conversation which marriages are going to make it. It has almost nothing to…

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the seven deadly sins in marriage

Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage

  • Post published:August 28, 2026

Most of us have heard of the seven deadly sins, but I'd never heard them reframed quite like this. In this episode, I dig into Elizabeth Oldfield's idea that these…

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emotional safety in marriage, desire and emotional connection,

Episode 435 – The Paradoxes Running Your Sex Life

  • Post published:August 21, 2026

Most of the fights in your marriage aren't problems to solve. They're paradoxes, and we get stuck the moment we try to pick a side instead of accepting both. In…

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emotional safety

Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On

  • Post published:August 14, 2026

What if the problem in your sex life isn’t really about sex at all? In this episode, I’m talking about emotional safety and the powerful role it plays in both…

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emotional safety in marriage, affection without expectations,

Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda

  • Post published:August 7, 2026

Have you ever stopped yourself from feeling close to your spouse because you were worried about where it might lead? In this episode, I explore why arousal, or what the…

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Sex, Shame, and Faith: What Actually Helps Latter-day Saint and Christian Marriages

  • Post published:August 6, 2026

I believe sex is meant to be good, and I believe you can be fully sexual and fully faithful at the same time. Most of the men, women, and couples…

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Episode 432 – The Natural Man Was Never About Your Sexuality

  • Post published:July 31, 2026

In this final episode of my five-part series, I challenge the idea that our sexuality is the "natural man" and offer a new framework for understanding what King Benjamin was…

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Alma 39 explained

Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder

  • Post published:July 24, 2026

What if one of the most familiar teachings about sexuality deserves a second look? In this episode, I take a careful look at Alma 39 and the teaching that sexual…

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religious sexual shame in men

Episode 430 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Him

  • Post published:July 17, 2026

What if the messages you received about sexuality shaped you more than you ever realized? In this third episode of my series, I explore how decades of cultural and religious…

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religious sexual conditioning

Episode 429 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Her

  • Post published:July 10, 2026

Have you ever wondered why intimacy can feel so difficult, even when you've done everything "right"? In this episode, I explore how the messages many women received growing up can…

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Episode 428 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – The Hundred-Year Story

  • Post published:July 3, 2026

What if the struggles you're experiencing in your marriage started long before you ever said "I do"? In this episode, I kick off a five-part series exploring the history, teachings,…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 438 – The Art of Receiving: Why It’s So Hard and Why It Matters

    Many conversations about improving your sex life focus on what men can do differently. But there’s another side that rarely gets talked about: women who can’t receive. In this episode, Amanda breaks down two distinct patterns — the wife who checks out and endures, and the wife who keeps redirecting everything back to her husband — exploring why each happens, where the need for control comes from, and what it actually takes to change. Whether you’re the one struggling to receive or the husband who’s stopped trying, this episode offers a way forward.

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    Episode 438 – The Art of Receiving: Why It’s So Hard and Why It Matters
    Episode 438 – The Art of Receiving: Why It’s So Hard and Why It Matters
    September 11, 2026
    Episode 437 – Six Patterns That End Marriages
    September 4, 2026
    Episode 436 – The Seven Deadly Sins in Your Marriage
    August 28, 2026
    Episode 435 – The Paradoxes Running Your Sex Life
    August 21, 2026
    Episode 434 – Emotional Safety: The Foundation Your Marriage and Sex Life Are Built On
    August 14, 2026
    Episode 433 – Arousal Without an Agenda
    August 7, 2026
    Episode 432 – The Natural Man Was Never About Your Sexuality
    July 31, 2026
    Episode 431 – The Sin Next to Murder
    July 24, 2026
    Episode 430 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Him
    July 17, 2026
    Episode 429 – Sex, Worthiness, and the Rules You Inherited – What It Did to Her
    July 10, 2026
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