The Legit Motherhood Podcast

Post published:February 19, 2020

I was interview by Haili Murch for the This is Legit Motherhood podcast. We discussed intimacy and sex after kids. Listen here.

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Sex for Saints

As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

What if intimacy in your marriage didn’t actually depend on your spouse showing up first? In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful shift that changes how we think about emotional connection and why so many relationships feel one-sided. We will talk about what intimacy really means and how you can choose to be knowable and curious about your partner, even when they’re not meeting you there. I will introduce the concept of self-validated intimacy and how it frees you from waiting on your spouse’s response to feel connected. We will also explore the role of reciprocity and why mutual intimacy is still the goal. If you’ve been feeling lonely in your marriage or wondering why your spouse won’t open up, this episode will help you see your next step more clearly.

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