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Sexual disconnect in marriage

Episode 374 – The Marriage Is Great…Except for Sex

  • Post published:June 20, 2025

You’ve probably heard it, or maybe even said it: “Our marriage is great… except for the sex.” On the surface, it sounds minor. The friendship is solid, the parenting is…

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Choosing Love Podcast

  • Post published:December 11, 2023

We talked about porn, sex, masturbation, religious values, types of connection, and so much more. You can listen here.

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The Mixed Faith Relationship Podcast

  • Post published:November 2, 2023

I loved this discussion with Chris Rich! You can listen here.

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The Courageous and Confident Mom Podcast

  • Post published:August 25, 2023

Are you one of those women who, when the topic of sex comes up, can't help but cringe a little? Do you feel like it's more of a burden than…

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Husbands in Law Podcast

  • Post published:July 17, 2023

Let’s face it… Sex can feel scary and a bit overwhelming, especially if you have been in a relationship where there has been betrayal. I joined them to give you…

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jealousy

Episode 261 – Is Jealousy Good or Bad for a Marriage?

  • Post published:April 21, 2023

Have you ever been jealous in your relationship? Around 77% of people report feeling at least an occasional jealousy in their relationships. In this episode, we’re talking about jealousy and…

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Episode 245 – How Conflict in Marriage Builds Intimacy: An Interview with Crystal Hansen

  • Post published:December 30, 2022

In this episode, I’m talking with fellow coach and my real life best friend, Crystal Hansen, all about how conflict actually builds intimacy in your marriage. I know this sounds…

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Episode 244 – How My Spouse’s Faith Journey Affected Our Sex Life – An Interview with Lisa Frehner

  • Post published:December 23, 2022

Often in marriage, if there is disconnect in one part of the relationship, there is also disconnect in the bedroom. That’s how I came to know my guest today, Lisa.…

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Episode 235 – Coaching Changed our Marriage

  • Post published:October 21, 2022

In this special episode, I spoke with Maddie and Matt. I have been coaching Maddie for a little over a year now. We talked about what my coaching program is…

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kids and sex

Episode 234 – When Kids Disrupt Your Sex Life

  • Post published:October 14, 2022

If I had a dollar for every time a woman told me that their kids were keeping them from having sex, I would have added a lot to my piggy…

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Episode 232 – I Don’t Care if I Ever Have Sex Again: A Conversation with Mike Frazier, MD

  • Post published:September 30, 2022

In this episode I’m talking with Mike Frazier, MD of Strong Men, Strong Marriages. I share what the woman thinks when she says that she doesn’t care if she ever…

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duty sex

Episode 229 – Duty Sex

  • Post published:September 9, 2022

What is duty sex? Duty sex is when we have sex with our husbands because we “should.” Because it is our duty as a good wife. Because he “needs” it.…

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    Sex for Saints

    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 438 – The Art of Receiving: Why It’s So Hard and Why It Matters

    Many conversations about improving your sex life focus on what men can do differently. But there’s another side that rarely gets talked about: women who can’t receive. In this episode, Amanda breaks down two distinct patterns — the wife who checks out and endures, and the wife who keeps redirecting everything back to her husband — exploring why each happens, where the need for control comes from, and what it actually takes to change. Whether you’re the one struggling to receive or the husband who’s stopped trying, this episode offers a way forward.

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