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Episode 291 – Using Psychedelics in Sex Therapy

  • Post published:November 17, 2023
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At times in my coaching career, I’ve been asked by clients about the use of psychedelics in sex therapy. I know that this may be a controversial topic, but I…

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Episode 290 – What Makes A Marriage Thrive

  • Post published:November 10, 2023
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Most of us will say that our marriage is our most important relationship.  Yet we often let things get in the way of making it great and our marriage gets…

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Episode 289 – Consequences of Sexual Accommodation

  • Post published:November 3, 2023
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I think we all want to have an intimate marriage, but we often miss one important step in achieving that. To have an intimate marriage, we must understand and make…

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The Mixed Faith Relationship Podcast

  • Post published:November 2, 2023
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I loved this discussion with Chris Rich! You can listen here.

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Episode 288 – How Your Eating Can Affect Your Sex Life

  • Post published:October 27, 2023
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Have you ever thought about how food can affect your sex life? That’s what I’m discussing today with my guest and fellow life coach Lisa Salisbury. Thinking about what you…

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Eat Well, Think Well, Live Well Podcast

  • Post published:October 26, 2023
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We discuss why we would want to pay attention to our sexual lives. We discuss the anxiety reduction, confidence boosting, overall good feelings that healthy sexuality can produce.  While I…

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Episode 287 – Overcoming Boredom in Sex

  • Post published:October 20, 2023
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Many women tell me that sex is boring for them, which is one of the reasons why they don’t have a strong desire for it.  No one craves boredom.  We…

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Episode 286 – Sexual Myths Learned From Porn

  • Post published:October 13, 2023
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The lack of sex education is a real issue in our country, so often people turn to pornography to learn about sex, which doesn’t actually help our understanding of sex…

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Episode 285 – How Women Can Have Multiple Orgasms

  • Post published:October 6, 2023
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Orgasms are an amazing experience! For most people, they are the most powerful feeling of pleasure available here on Earth. While men have a recovery period after orgasm, women do…

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Self Care Simplified Podcast

  • Post published:October 5, 2023
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I got to talk to Megan from Self Care Simplified Podcast. We talked all about how your sex life actually plays a vital role in your self-care.  Here are some…

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Parenting Passionately Podcast

  • Post published:October 2, 2023
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Sex in partnerships is often an overlooked subject- but something that affects every other aspect of our relationship too. How do we move past sexual shame and have a vibrant…

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Get Your Marriage On Podcast

  • Post published:October 2, 2023
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One of the paths to a stronger marriage is by doing the work necessary to have a great sex life as a couple. Why start with sex? It’s because there’s…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 389 – The Good Guy She Doesn’t Desire

    In this episode, I’m diving into a pattern I see so often in marriages: good men with the best intentions who unintentionally invalidate their wives’ feelings. I’ll share real stories of couples who get stuck in this cycle and explain why it happens, especially when a husband’s identity is tied so closely to being “the good guy.” You’ll hear how this dynamic leaves wives feeling unseen and husbands frustrated, even though neither partner wants that outcome. Most importantly, I’ll talk about what both husbands and wives can do to break free from this pattern and build deeper connection and intimacy. Whether you see yourself in these stories or simply want a stronger marriage, this episode has something for you.

    Episode 389 – The Good Guy She Doesn’t Desire
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    Episode 388 – Sexual Grief
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    Episode 387 – She Doesn’t Hate Sex, She Hates Bad Sex
    September 19, 2025
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    Episode 385 – The Dangerous Illusion of Sexual Certainty
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    Episode 384 – The Difference Between Safety and Security in the Sexual Relationship
    August 29, 2025
    Episode 383 – Learning to Love Your Body: A Conversation with Boudoir Photographer Hope Orr
    August 22, 2025
    Episode 382 – The Difference Between Sex Drive and Sexual Desire
    August 15, 2025
    Episode 381 – Bad Marriage Advice
    August 8, 2025
    Episode 380 – Learning to Sit with Disappointment
    August 1, 2025
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