Episode 426 – When He Stops Initiating
How do you reconnect with your spouse after so much distance that you’re not even sure you want things to go back to the way they were? In this episode,…
Episode 425 – Learning to Initiate Again After Rejection
When the higher desire partner stops initiating after repeated rejection, it sets off a painful cycle that neither spouse knows how to break. In this episode, we walk through why…
Episode 424 – Getting Over Rejection: How to Stop Letting “No” Run Your Marriage
When sexual rejection builds up in a marriage, it rarely stays contained to the bedroom. It seeps into everything — the emotional atmosphere, the small daily gestures, and eventually the…
Episode 423 – The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom
What happens when a man spends his whole life believing his desire could hurt someone? In this episode, I will explore how religious and cultural messages about male sexuality can…
Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt
What if the key to a more connected, nourishing sex life is simply slowing down? In this episode of Sex for Saints, I will talk with sex researcher Chelom Leavitt…
Episode 421 – Why Talks About Sex Keep Going Sideways
Hard conversations don’t fall apart because of what’s said, but often because of how they start. In this episode, I will show you why “ambush conversations” trigger defensiveness and disconnection,…
Episode 420 – Redefining Protect and Provide
What if “protect and provide” isn’t outdated, but just misunderstood? In this episode, I will break down how these ideas have quietly shaped marriages and why the old definitions may…
Episode 419 – Sexual Integrity: Becoming Whole
What if the tension you feel around sex isn’t about your relationship at all, but about being divided within yourself? In this episode, I will unpack what sexual integrity really…
Episode 418 – Your Wife Isn’t A Problem To Solve
What if the very thing you’re doing to improve your sex life is actually making it worse? In this episode, I’m breaking down the “fix-it” mentality so many men bring…
Episode 417 – Better Foreplay: What Actually Works (And What Doesn’t)
In this episode, I talk about how most of us have misunderstood foreplay and why it’s not just something that happens right before sex. I share how true connection and…
Episode 416 – Did You Marry the Right Person? The Only Two Things That Matter
Have you ever caught yourself wondering, “Did I marry the right person?” I want to show you why that question is actually leading you in the wrong direction and what…
Episode 415 – The ABC Loop: How to Stop Pressuring Your Spouse About Sex
If you’ve been trying everything to fix your sex life and nothing seems to be working, this episode might feel a little uncomfortable, but also like a breath of fresh…