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why infusing passion into every day life matters

Episode 399 – Infusing Sexual Energy Throughout Your Marriage

  • Post published:December 12, 2025
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In this episode, I’m talking about what it really looks like to infuse sexual energy throughout your marriage, not just during planned intimacy, but in the everyday moments that make…

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techniques for better orgasms

Episode 398 – Wait, Was That It? Understanding and Strengthening Weak Orgasms

  • Post published:December 5, 2025
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In this episode, I will walk you through a question I’ve heard from so many women over the years: How do I know if I’m actually having an orgasm? I’ll…

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sexual hygiene tips, intimate hygiene for couples,

Episode 397 – The Unsexy Truth About Sexual Hygiene

  • Post published:November 28, 2025
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In this episode, I’m breaking down the practical side of sexual hygiene and why it matters so much for intimacy, confidence, and overall sexual health. I walk through the basics…

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postpartum intimacy shifts

Episode 396 – From Lovers to Parents (and Back Again): Navigating Life After Baby

  • Post published:November 21, 2025
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I get asked all the time how to keep sex and intimacy alive after having a baby, so in this episode I’m breaking down what really happens during this huge…

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sex during pregnancy

Episode 395 – Sex During Pregnancy: A Trimester-by-Trimester Guide

  • Post published:November 14, 2025
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Pregnancy brings so many changes, and your intimate life is one of them, but it doesn’t have to disappear for nine months. In this episode, I’m answering real listener questions…

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enhanced sexual connection

Episode 394 – The Unexpected Intimacy of Creating Intimacy Products with Justin and Natalie Weeks

  • Post published:November 7, 2025
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In this episode, I’m sitting down with Justin and Natalie Weeks, the founders of Evree Intimate Massage Oil and Lubricant, to talk about how one thoughtful idea completely transformed their…

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sex equals love myth

Episode 393 – The Dangerous Equation: Why Sex ≠ Love

  • Post published:October 31, 2025
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In this episode, I dive into one of the most damaging beliefs I see in relationships: the idea that sex equals love. I’ll share why this thinking creates unnecessary pain,…

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sexual rejection in marriage

Episode 392 – Why Sexual Rejection Feels So Personal

  • Post published:October 24, 2025
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Sexual rejection is one of the most painful experiences in marriage, but is your spouse really rejecting you or just rejecting sex? In this episode, I break down the two…

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framing sex as a need

Episode 391 – I Meet Her Needs, Why Won’t She Meet Mine?

  • Post published:October 17, 2025
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So many men tell me, “I meet all her needs, why can’t she meet mine?” Almost always that “need” is sex. I understand the frustration behind that question, but here’s…

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Neuroplasticity in relationships

Episode 390 – The Brain Chemistry of Sex

  • Post published:October 10, 2025
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Have you ever wondered why you can feel like a totally different person during sex than afterward? In this episode, I break down what’s actually happening in your brain before,…

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marriage defensiveness

Episode 389 – The Good Guy She Doesn’t Desire

  • Post published:October 3, 2025
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In this episode, I’m diving into a pattern I see so often in marriages: good men with the best intentions who unintentionally invalidate their wives’ feelings. I’ll share real stories…

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hidden grief in religious communities, sexual grief in conservative faiths,

Episode 388 – Sexual Grief

  • Post published:September 26, 2025
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Sexual grief is something many experience but few talk about. In this episode, we explore what it means to grieve the sex life you thought you’d have, and why making…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire

    When a woman says she’d be completely fine never having sex again, I know something important has already broken. In this episode, I unpack why so many women in faith-based marriages end up here, even when they once loved sex, and how obligation, pressure, and shame quietly kill desire over time. I walk through both sides of this dynamic, explaining why men often respond with more pursuit and why that panic makes things worse instead of better. I also share what actually helps desire return, including understanding responsive desire, removing pressure, rebuilding trust through touch without agenda, and learning skills most of us were never taught. If sex has started to feel like duty instead of connection, this episode shows why that happened and what makes real desire possible again.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
    February 27, 2026
    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
    February 20, 2026
    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
    February 13, 2026
    Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive
    February 6, 2026
    Episode 406 – When Self-Betrayal Still Isn’t Enough: The Painful Paradox of Duty Sex
    January 30, 2026
    Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners
    January 23, 2026
    Episode 404 – Why Sex Isn’t Pleasurable For Some Women
    January 16, 2026
    Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier
    January 9, 2026
    Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering
    January 2, 2026
    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex
    December 26, 2025
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