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Table Talk for Moms Podcast

  • Post published:January 17, 2023
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In this episode, I talk about how I know how difficult it can be to find confidence as a wife and mother, and I share all of the tips and…

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Love Tidbits Podcast

  • Post published:January 6, 2023
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Listen in as LeAnn Austin and I discuss why love is the basis of all I do in my coaching and what we should base our lives on. Listen here.

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A Bit Better Every Day with Ashlee Sorensen Podcast

  • Post published:October 3, 2022
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Listen in as my dear friend Ashlee and I have a  friendly and fun conversation about sex. Listen here.

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Sprinkled with Hope Podcast

  • Post published:September 20, 2022
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In this episode, we talked about how I grew up in a home where we didn’t talk about sex, and I had a lot of shame around my sexuality and…

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Heal from Infidelity Podcast

  • Post published:August 2, 2022
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In this episode, Andrea Giles and I talk about questions that come up a lot with her clients who have experienced infidelity. What about intimacy after finding out? Is it…

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Dating After Divorce Podcast

  • Post published:July 6, 2022
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In today’s episode, I share my divorce and remarriage story, how I came out of an emotionally abusive marriage and how I met my current husband six weeks after my…

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The Confident Mompreneur Podcast

  • Post published:June 7, 2022
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In this episode, I talked with Kyrie from The Confident Mompreneur podcast about how to develop a better relationship with our sexuality by rebuilding our beliefs around sex, understanding how…

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Co-Parenting with Confidence Podcast

  • Post published:May 18, 2022
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I spoke with Mikki Gardner of the Co-Parenting with Confidence podcast. I shared with her the story of my marriage, divorce, co-parenting, and remarriage. Listen here.

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The Cut the Chaos Podcast with Sandra Jarvis

  • Post published:April 11, 2022
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I got to be a guest on The Cut the Chaos Podcast. We discussed the thought, "I do it for him," and why this is such a harmful thought for…

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The Culture Hall Podcast

  • Post published:March 8, 2022
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I got to be a guest on The Culture Hall Podcast and share some things that I have come to know about our Heavenly Parents through my work. Listen here.

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The Friendly Podcast Guide

  • Post published:March 8, 2022
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I got to be a guest on The Friendly Podcast Guide and share some behind the scenes about how The Sex for Saint podcast came to be. Listen here.

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Get your Marriage On Podcast with Dan Purcell

  • Post published:February 11, 2022
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I got to talk with Dan Purcell of the Get your Marriage on Podcast about how to overcome hang-ups about oral sex. The best sex is intimate sex, and oral…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire

    When a woman says she’d be completely fine never having sex again, I know something important has already broken. In this episode, I unpack why so many women in faith-based marriages end up here, even when they once loved sex, and how obligation, pressure, and shame quietly kill desire over time. I walk through both sides of this dynamic, explaining why men often respond with more pursuit and why that panic makes things worse instead of better. I also share what actually helps desire return, including understanding responsive desire, removing pressure, rebuilding trust through touch without agenda, and learning skills most of us were never taught. If sex has started to feel like duty instead of connection, this episode shows why that happened and what makes real desire possible again.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
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    February 27, 2026
    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
    February 20, 2026
    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
    February 13, 2026
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