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Read more about the article Episode 90 – Desire Like Nephi

Episode 90 – Desire Like Nephi

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How do you react when approached for sex?

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Read more about the article Episode 89 – 10 Mistakes We Make With Sex

Episode 89 – 10 Mistakes We Make With Sex

  • Post published:January 3, 2020
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10 Mistakes we all make with sex.

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Read more about the article Episode 88 – Sexy New Year

Episode 88 – Sexy New Year

  • Post published:December 27, 2019
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What do you want your sex life to look like in the New Year?

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Read more about the article Episode 87 – Sexy Christmas

Episode 87 – Sexy Christmas

  • Post published:December 20, 2019
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So much of Christmas is focused around the kids, but don’t forget about creating memories and getting gifts for your spouse.

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Read more about the article Episode 86 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire

Episode 86 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire

  • Post published:December 13, 2019
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What turns you on? What turns you off?

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Read more about the article Episode 85 – Stages of Sex

Episode 85 – Stages of Sex

  • Post published:December 6, 2019
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Understanding the stages and knowing how your body responds helps you to see where you are and in what areas you might need a little help or to improve to create a fuller, richer experience and sex life.

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Read more about the article Episode 84 – Why Coaching?

Episode 84 – Why Coaching?

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Why coaching is great for anyone at any level!

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Read more about the article Episode 83 – Making Time For Sex

Episode 83 – Making Time For Sex

  • Post published:November 22, 2019
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Anything of value means you need to carve out time for it. What is getting in the way of your sexy time?

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Read more about the article Episode 82 – Sex Rules

Episode 82 – Sex Rules

  • Post published:November 15, 2019
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We all have rules and expectations with sex. Do you know yours?

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Read more about the article Episode 81 – Good Girl Syndrome

Episode 81 – Good Girl Syndrome

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Sexuality and Spirituality

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Read more about the article Episode 80 – How To Be Sexy

Episode 80 – How To Be Sexy

  • Post published:October 31, 2019
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How to be sexy and why that's ok!

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Read more about the article Episode 79 – Why I Believe

Episode 79 – Why I Believe

  • Post published:October 25, 2019
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My Testimony of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 427 – Why Your Spouse Gets Defensive When You’re Just Trying to Help

    What happens when “help” from your spouse starts to feel more like criticism? In this episode, I talk about why even well-intentioned advice can feel like an attack when it isn’t invited first, especially in conversations about sex and intimacy. I walk through how unsolicited feedback triggers defensiveness in our nervous systems, why both higher-desire and lower-desire spouses fall into this pattern, and how asking for consent before sharing can completely change the conversation. We’ll also talk about practical ways to create emotional safety, move from defensiveness to curiosity, and build a marriage where both people actually feel heard. Sometimes the smallest shift, simply asking “Can I?”, can open the door to the kind of connection you’ve been wanting all along.

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    Episode 422 – Slow Down to Connect: The Science of Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Chelom Leavitt
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    Episode 419 – Sexual Integrity: Becoming Whole
    May 1, 2026
    Episode 418 – Your Wife Isn’t A Problem To Solve
    April 24, 2026
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