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Episode 70 – Changing Our Beliefs About Sex

  • Post published:August 23, 2019
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What do you believe about sex and how does that shape your relationship with yourself and your spouse?

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Read more about the article Episode 69 – Asking Good Questions

Episode 69 – Asking Good Questions

  • Post published:August 16, 2019
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Seek the wisdom in your own brain by asking good questions.

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Read more about the article Episode 68 – Watching Your Brain

Episode 68 – Watching Your Brain

  • Post published:August 9, 2019
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Do you ever watch yourself think?

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Read more about the article Episode 67 – Owning Your Results

Episode 67 – Owning Your Results

  • Post published:August 2, 2019
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Take responsibility for what is going on in your life.

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Read more about the article Episode 66 – Attachment & Emotional Safety

Episode 66 – Attachment & Emotional Safety

  • Post published:July 26, 2019
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How can you feel emotionally safe in your relationship? How can you try to help your spouse feel emotionally safe?

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Read more about the article Episode 65 – Receiving Love

Episode 65 – Receiving Love

  • Post published:July 19, 2019
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How do you become a good receiver of love? That’s what we are talking about on this week’s episode.

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Read more about the article Episode 64 – When Your Sex Life Isn’t What You Expected

Episode 64 – When Your Sex Life Isn’t What You Expected

  • Post published:July 12, 2019
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Find out how you can make sex better for you on this week’s episode.

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Read more about the article Episode 63  – Wanting More From Your Spouse

Episode 63 – Wanting More From Your Spouse

  • Post published:July 5, 2019
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Why do we always want more than what we have? What happens when we get it?

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Read more about the article Episode 62 – Accepting Your Spouse’s Bad Behaviors

Episode 62 – Accepting Your Spouse’s Bad Behaviors

  • Post published:June 28, 2019
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In today’s podcast, we discuss how learning to accept your spouse and loving them for who they are actually feels so much better and sets you free.

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Read more about the article Episode 61  – Confidence vs. Self-Confidence

Episode 61 – Confidence vs. Self-Confidence

  • Post published:June 21, 2019
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How does confidence or the lack thereof show up in your marriage?

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Read more about the article Episode 60 – The Law of Chastity in Marriage

Episode 60 – The Law of Chastity in Marriage

  • Post published:June 14, 2019
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We most often associate the Law of Chastity with the youth or young single adults. But, as married couples, the Law of Chastity still very much applies to us.

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Episode 59 – Self Regulation

  • Post published:June 7, 2019
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How will regulating myself help my marriage?

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 407 – When You Don’t Find Your Husband’s Body Attractive

    In this episode, I talk about a struggle I hear from women all the time but that rarely gets named out loud: loving your husband deeply while feeling disconnected from his body. I discuss where that discomfort often comes from, especially for women who grew up with strong messages about modesty, safety, and avoiding anything sexual before marriage. I explain how that conditioning can quietly shape how you see male bodies, how it affects your intimacy, and what your husband may be experiencing on the other side of it. I also share how attraction can be learned, how safety and curiosity can replace fear and avoidance, and the real steps you can take to begin seeing your husband’s body differently. This episode is an honest, compassionate look at how body acceptance can transform not just your sex life, but the emotional connection in your marriage too.

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