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perceptions

Episode 318 – The Sexual Stories That Hurt Our Relationship

  • Post published:May 24, 2024
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When it comes to life, our perception is our reality. And these perceptions also shape our sexual relationships. Unfortunately, we often look at these perceptions as facts rather than realizing…

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Episode 317 – Measuring the Quality of Our Marriage

  • Post published:May 17, 2024
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We often check in with our finances, our physical health, or our mental health, so why not our relationship health? In this episode, we will talk about why we should…

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if you love me

Episode 316 – If You Love Me…

  • Post published:May 10, 2024
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“If you love me…” I’ve been seeing this phrase thrown around quite a lot lately. My clients often tell me that their spouse has said, “If you love me, you’d…

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burden of initiating

Episode 315 – The Burden of Initiating

  • Post published:May 3, 2024
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Initiating sex is really important in your relationship, but it can also be really hard. Because of societal norms, we sometimes think that men should always initiate because women should…

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Episode 314 – Sexual Resentment

  • Post published:April 26, 2024
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Sexual Resentment is a complex emotion where we feel our needs are not being met in one way or another. If we take a step back and look at the…

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uplevel your sex life

Episode 313 – Level 3 Sex

  • Post published:April 19, 2024
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For the last couple of episodes, we’ve been talking about the different levels of sex. So, in this episode, we’re going to talk about the pinnacle of marital intimacy -…

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Episode 312 – Level 2 Sex

  • Post published:April 12, 2024
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In the last podcast, we talked about Level 1 Sex, what it is, and what we can do about it. So, in this podcast, we are talking about Level 2…

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Episode 311 – Level 1 Sex

  • Post published:April 5, 2024
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In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that might resonate with many of you - Level 1 Sex. What is it? What isn’t it? And most importantly, how can…

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Episode 310 – Overcoming Sexual Disappointment

  • Post published:March 29, 2024
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Sexual disappointment is a complex emotion. Whenever we have expectations and those expectations aren’t being met, it’s natural to be disappointed. But what really matters is how we deal with…

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Episode 309 – Are You Using Your Wife for Sex?

  • Post published:March 22, 2024
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When asked, “Are you using your wife for sex?”, most men would say, "Absolutely not”! But is that true? Many men use their wives for sex without even realizing they…

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Episode 308 – Relational Listening – An Essential Sexual Conversation Skill

  • Post published:March 15, 2024
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In this episode, let’s talk about one of the most powerful tools in your relationship toolbox - relational listening. What is relational listening? It’s more than hearing, it’s understanding. So,…

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Episode 307 – 3 Things That Affect Sexual Desire

  • Post published:March 8, 2024
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Sexual desire is much more complex than many of us are led to believe. Desire is multifaceted and must be examined from a biological, psychological, and sociological standpoint. Why do…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 402 – Sexual Simmering

    Have you ever noticed how sex can feel like something you “check off,” followed by days or weeks of not thinking about it at all? In this episode, I’m inviting you to consider a different way of relating to your sexuality that doesn’t require pressure, performance, or forcing yourself to feel desire. The idea is called “simmering” and I will explain how staying gently connected to your sexual self between encounters can make sex feel easier, more natural, and more mutual. We’ll talk about how anticipation and awareness create desire over time, especially if you’re the lower desire partner. If you want sex to feel less like a mountain to climb and more like something you can ease into, this episode will help you see what’s been missing and how to change it.

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