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burden of initiating

Episode 315 – The Burden of Initiating

  • Post published:May 3, 2024
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Initiating sex is really important in your relationship, but it can also be really hard. Because of societal norms, we sometimes think that men should always initiate because women should…

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Episode 314 – Sexual Resentment

  • Post published:April 26, 2024
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Sexual Resentment is a complex emotion where we feel our needs are not being met in one way or another. If we take a step back and look at the…

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uplevel your sex life

Episode 313 – Level 3 Sex

  • Post published:April 19, 2024
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For the last couple of episodes, we’ve been talking about the different levels of sex. So, in this episode, we’re going to talk about the pinnacle of marital intimacy -…

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Episode 312 – Level 2 Sex

  • Post published:April 12, 2024
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In the last podcast, we talked about Level 1 Sex, what it is, and what we can do about it. So, in this podcast, we are talking about Level 2…

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Episode 311 – Level 1 Sex

  • Post published:April 5, 2024
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In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that might resonate with many of you - Level 1 Sex. What is it? What isn’t it? And most importantly, how can…

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Episode 310 – Overcoming Sexual Disappointment

  • Post published:March 29, 2024
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Sexual disappointment is a complex emotion. Whenever we have expectations and those expectations aren’t being met, it’s natural to be disappointed. But what really matters is how we deal with…

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men's mental health

Episode 309 – Are You Using Your Wife for Sex?

  • Post published:March 22, 2024
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When asked, “Are you using your wife for sex?”, most men would say, "Absolutely not”! But is that true? Many men use their wives for sex without even realizing they…

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Episode 308 – Relational Listening – An Essential Sexual Conversation Skill

  • Post published:March 15, 2024
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In this episode, let’s talk about one of the most powerful tools in your relationship toolbox - relational listening. What is relational listening? It’s more than hearing, it’s understanding. So,…

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Episode 307 – 3 Things That Affect Sexual Desire

  • Post published:March 8, 2024
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Sexual desire is much more complex than many of us are led to believe. Desire is multifaceted and must be examined from a biological, psychological, and sociological standpoint. Why do…

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Episode 306 – The Four Things We All Want in our Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:March 1, 2024
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I’ve been thinking a lot about what we all want in our relationships and what that means to our relationships. So, today I’m going to share with you the four…

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Episode 305 – What Every Couple Needs To Know About Women’s Hormones – An Interview with Dr. Kelly Casperson

  • Post published:February 23, 2024
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I am so excited for you to hear this interview with Dr. Kelly Casperson. We talk about what you and your partner need to know about women’s hormones. We as…

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Episode 304 – Female-Centric Sex

  • Post published:February 16, 2024
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I know that some of us, both men and women, feel that female-centric sex is selfish. But it absolutely is not! Let’s talk about why women may not want to…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 411 – Is Your Sex Life Nourishing or Depleting?

    I want to talk about why sex can feel draining instead of connecting, even when it’s happening regularly, and how that disconnect quietly impacts a marriage. What does nourishing sex actually look like and why does obligation, performance, and one-sided dynamics make intimacy feel heavy instead of life-giving? Through real client stories, I will break down how emotional safety, presence, and mutual desire change both the individual and the relationship experience of sex. With my normal directness, I will share practical ways couples can begin shifting from sex that depletes to sex that genuinely feeds connection. This conversation is about creating intimacy that both partners look forward to, not endure. You’re going to love it.

    Episode 411 – Is Your Sex Life Nourishing or Depleting?
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    January 16, 2026
    Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier
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