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Episode 309 – Are You Using Your Wife for Sex?

  • Post published:March 22, 2024
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When asked, “Are you using your wife for sex?”, most men would say, "Absolutely not”! But is that true? Many men use their wives for sex without even realizing they…

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Episode 308 – Relational Listening – An Essential Sexual Conversation Skill

  • Post published:March 15, 2024
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In this episode, let’s talk about one of the most powerful tools in your relationship toolbox - relational listening. What is relational listening? It’s more than hearing, it’s understanding. So,…

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Episode 307 – 3 Things That Affect Sexual Desire

  • Post published:March 8, 2024
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Sexual desire is much more complex than many of us are led to believe. Desire is multifaceted and must be examined from a biological, psychological, and sociological standpoint. Why do…

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Episode 306 – The Four Things We All Want in our Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:March 1, 2024
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I’ve been thinking a lot about what we all want in our relationships and what that means to our relationships. So, today I’m going to share with you the four…

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Episode 305 – What Every Couple Needs To Know About Women’s Hormones – An Interview with Dr. Kelly Casperson

  • Post published:February 23, 2024
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I am so excited for you to hear this interview with Dr. Kelly Casperson. We talk about what you and your partner need to know about women’s hormones. We as…

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Episode 304 – Female-Centric Sex

  • Post published:February 16, 2024
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I know that some of us, both men and women, feel that female-centric sex is selfish. But it absolutely is not! Let’s talk about why women may not want to…

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Episode 303 – The Common Thread Between Money & Sex

  • Post published:February 9, 2024
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At first thought, money and sex may not seem to have a lot in common. But if you think about it, when you improve something about your relationship, it often…

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Episode 302 – When Your Partner Won’t Grow Sexually

  • Post published:February 2, 2024
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Sex, intimacy, and personal growth are all tied together. And when your partner doesn’t want to grow sexually, but you do, it can cause a lot of conflict. It’s not…

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Episode 301 – Mature Feminine Sexuality

  • Post published:January 26, 2024
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I recently was a guest on the Live Your Why podcast with Tammy Hill. I thought the episode was so good, I asked Tammy if I could share it with…

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Episode 300 – Celebrating 300 Episodes!

  • Post published:January 19, 2024
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Wow! Episode 300! I can hardly believe it! I remember nearly six years ago when I started this podcast that I could hardly imagine what 100 episodes would look like,…

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Episode 299 – Focus On The Journey, Not The Destination

  • Post published:January 12, 2024
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Have you ever been on a road trip and heard the words, “Are we there yet?” That person is just focused on the destination, not the journey itself. The same…

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Episode 298 – How To Have Anal Sex Safely

  • Post published:January 5, 2024
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I have had a lot of questions lately about how to safely have anal sex so I’m going to answer those questions here. Anal sex is often intriguing for many…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners

    In this episode, I talk about what happens when a spouse’s sexual past becomes a source of anxiety, comparison, guilt, or secrecy inside a marriage. I unpack why obsessive thoughts about a partner’s past aren’t really about what happened then, but about fear and insecurity now, and why no amount of details ever brings peace. We also look at the other side of the equation: carrying a past you never disclosed, how secrets quietly create distance, and how to thoughtfully decide whether disclosure is actually the right step. Throughout the episode, I separate repentance before God from emotional healing in marriage, and explain why believing in the Atonement doesn’t mean you’re required to feel nothing. This episode is for anyone struggling with jealousy, rumination, moral superiority, or the weight of an unresolved sexual past in a faith-based marriage.

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