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Episode 329 – A Different Way to Approach Sex

  • Post published:August 9, 2024
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What if I told you that the way you have been thinking about sex is wrong? What if that’s the reason you don’t have the sex life that you thought…

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Fantasy vs Reality

Episode 328 – Fantasy vs Desire

  • Post published:August 2, 2024
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I’ve noticed a lot of people expressing problems with their spouse’s fantasies. They don’t understand certain fantasies, and they are afraid that their spouse wants to turn them into reality.…

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Fresh Living on KUTV

  • Post published:July 30, 2024
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In this great TV interview, I got to speak with Kari Hawker-Diaz of Fresh Living about the impact of marriage on women's health. So, if you're looking to improve your…

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Episode 327 – Traits of Healthy Couples

  • Post published:July 26, 2024
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Do you know what a healthy relationship looks like? Many of us don’t because our parents didn’t know what a healthy couple looked like either. But we can change that…

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Episode 326 – Mining for Conflict to Increase Intimacy

  • Post published:July 19, 2024
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In this episode, I want to talk about something that may make you feel a little uncomfortable - mining for conflict. It is absolutely crucial for the health and intimacy…

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Therapy Brothers Podcast

  • Post published:July 16, 2024
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In this great episode, I got to talk with Tyler and Brannon about the difference between consumption and connection in relationships. We explored how focusing on physical pleasure versus emotional…

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when sex is hard

Episode 325 – Why Sex Seems So Hard

  • Post published:July 12, 2024
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In this episode, I want to talk about a question I get asked all of the time. It’s said in different ways, but it all comes down to this -…

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Episode 324 – Are Devices Hurting Your Sex Life?

  • Post published:July 5, 2024
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In this episode, I want to talk about something that is more and more relevant in our digital age - how devices are hurting marriages and sexual relationships. Because this…

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quality over quantity

Episode 323 – How Much Sex is Normal in Marriage?

  • Post published:June 28, 2024
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This is something I get asked all the time! I understand why people want to know, but the answer isn’t so black and white. In this episode we’re going to…

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Episode 322 – Feeling Like You Are Never Enough Sexually

  • Post published:June 21, 2024
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Have you ever felt like you weren’t enough in your life? Most people do, but when that feeling creeps into the bedroom, it can be incredibly frustrating and disheartening. Maybe…

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sexual martyrdom

Episode 321 – Sexual Martyrdom

  • Post published:June 14, 2024
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In this episode, we are going to talk about a topic that’s all too common but not often discussed—sexual martyrdom in marriage. I’ll answer questions like: What does it mean…

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Episode 320 – Using Sex As A Bandaid

  • Post published:June 7, 2024
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A while ago, I was at an event with a lot of other women. A woman sat down next to me and asked, “What if the sex is really good,…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    In this episode, I’ll talk about one of the most painful sexual dynamics I see in marriages: when a wife has been self-betraying for years by having sex she doesn’t want, while her husband still feels unsatisfied. I’ll explain why orgasms aren’t the same thing as satisfaction, and how duty sex can actually block the connection both partners are craving. I’ll unpack how this pattern creates deep resentment for her, confusion for him, and eventually a crisis point that forces the relationship to change. I’ll also share what real repair can look like, how couples can move from obligation to genuine desire, and why quality and connection matter far more than frequency. This episode will be especially helpful for anyone who feels stuck in a painful sexual stalemate and wants clarity on what’s really going wrong and what healing could look like.

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