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Episode 345 – Building a Collaborative Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:November 29, 2024
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Creating a collaborative sexual relationship is so important to your marriage. Collaboration is different from compromise where it’s not just about teamwork, or giving in, but about a mutual commitment…

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Episode 344 – Sexual Caretaking

  • Post published:November 22, 2024
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Do you find yourself worrying more about your partner during your sexual experience than you do yourself? When we feel overly responsible for other’s emotional or physical experience during sex,…

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Episode 343 – Sexual Shame

  • Post published:November 15, 2024
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In this episode, we are going to address a topic that so many struggle with but often don’t talk about: sexual shame. Many carry the burden of sexual shame and…

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Episode 342 – Rekindling Love and Attraction

  • Post published:November 8, 2024
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Do you know the #1 thing that people google to get to my website? “I’m not attracted to my spouse.” Relationships are a complex thing and it’s natural to have…

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Episode 341 – Building More Gratitude Into Your Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:November 1, 2024
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Thanksgiving is a natural time to talk about what we’re grateful for, but we often forget to include our sexual relationship on that list. Gratitude is such a powerful force…

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Episode 340 – Four Reasons She’s Not In The Mood

  • Post published:October 25, 2024
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Desire is a topic that comes up a lot in my coaching business. Couples often wonder why she's just not in the mood so in this episode, we're going to…

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overcoming sexual anxiety in marriage

Episode 339 – Sexual Leftovers

  • Post published:October 18, 2024
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Have you ever felt like your sex life is stuck in a predictable, comfortable routine? It’s not unusual to feel this way but how do you get out of it?…

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Episode 338 – The Importance of Aftercare

  • Post published:October 11, 2024
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What is aftercare? Well, to put it simply, it’s what happens after you have sex. Do you jump right up and go on with your day or do you take…

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Episode 337 – Signs That Someone is Bad in Bed

  • Post published:October 4, 2024
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Are you bad in bed? Is your spouse? Being “bad in bed” isn’t a thing that should cause shame or anger but it is something that needs to be looked…

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Episode 336 – When Erections Fade – Understanding, Supporting, and Thriving Together

  • Post published:September 27, 2024
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Even though this topic can feel a little awkward, frustrating, and even scary, I think it’s important to talk about because all couples will probably have this happen from time…

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Episode 335 – The Benefits of Sleeping Nude

  • Post published:September 20, 2024
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Is it time to ditch your pajamas? This topic may make you blush, but let’s talk about why we might want to think about sleeping nude or partially nude. From…

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Episode 334 – What to do with Unanswered Arousal

  • Post published:September 13, 2024
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Let’s be honest, most of us were not taught what to do when our arousal was unanswered. So, let’s talk about it. What happens when we’re turned on, but our…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 405 – When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners

    In this episode, I talk about what happens when a spouse’s sexual past becomes a source of anxiety, comparison, guilt, or secrecy inside a marriage. I unpack why obsessive thoughts about a partner’s past aren’t really about what happened then, but about fear and insecurity now, and why no amount of details ever brings peace. We also look at the other side of the equation: carrying a past you never disclosed, how secrets quietly create distance, and how to thoughtfully decide whether disclosure is actually the right step. Throughout the episode, I separate repentance before God from emotional healing in marriage, and explain why believing in the Atonement doesn’t mean you’re required to feel nothing. This episode is for anyone struggling with jealousy, rumination, moral superiority, or the weight of an unresolved sexual past in a faith-based marriage.

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