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marriage myths debunked

Episode 381 – Bad Marriage Advice

  • Post published:August 8, 2025
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Is the marriage advice you’ve heard actually helping or quietly hurting your relationship? In this episode, Amanda interviews marriage coach and author Monica Tanner about her new book Bad Marriage…

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Living Beyond the Shadow of Doubt

Living Beyond the Shadow of Doubt Podcast

  • Post published:August 6, 2025
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I really enjoyed this interview I did with Meagan Skidmore about how I don't believe sexuality will take us to hell. Listen to it here.

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Episode 380 – Learning to Sit with Disappointment

  • Post published:August 1, 2025
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What if the key to deeper intimacy was learning how to handle disappointment? In this episode, we’re talking about the one feeling most of us spend our lives avoiding, disappointment,…

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Moms on the Rise Podcast

  • Post published:July 30, 2025
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This was such a fun podcast interview! If you’ve ever thought something needs to change in my marriage, but you’re not sure where to begin — this conversation is your…

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overcoming spouse self-criticism

Episode 379 – I Guess I’m a Terrible Spouse….

  • Post published:July 25, 2025
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You finally build up the courage to say something vulnerable, maybe about feeling disconnected, wanting more intimacy, or missing the spark in your relationship. And then, instead of a conversation,…

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Episode 378 – Maintenance Sex

  • Post published:July 18, 2025
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What comes to mind when you hear the phrase “maintenance sex”? For a lot of people, it feels unromantic - maybe even a little cringy. It doesn’t sound poetic or…

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Episode 377 – Good Enough Sex

  • Post published:July 11, 2025
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Have you ever found yourself thinking, “We should have sex… but I’m just not feeling it” - only to go through the motions and walk away feeling disconnected? You’re not…

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Episode 376 – The Enneagram And Sex

  • Post published:July 4, 2025
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Why do you react the way you do in sexual situations, whether it’s craving something specific, avoiding certain dynamics, or feeling stuck in the same patterns? And why does your…

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Episode 375 – Sexual Discipline

  • Post published:June 27, 2025
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What if sexual discipline isn’t about restriction, but about freedom? In this episode, I’m exploring a concept that doesn’t get much airtime in Christian marriage spaces: sexual discipline within marriage.…

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Episode 374 – The Marriage Is Great…Except for Sex

  • Post published:June 20, 2025
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You’ve probably heard it, or maybe even said it: “Our marriage is great… except for the sex.” On the surface, it sounds minor. The friendship is solid, the parenting is…

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Episode 373 – When You Feel Stuck in Your Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:June 13, 2025
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In this episode, we’re diving into something that can quietly wear down even the strongest relationships: the Two-Choice Dilemma, a concept from Dr. David Schnarch. It’s what happens when you…

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Episode 372 – Better Sex Isn’t About Technique

  • Post published:June 6, 2025
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What I often see from those who listen to this podcast, or even from my clients, is that they want a quick fix to their problems in the bedroom. They…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 403 – Sex As A Pacifier

    In this episode, I’m inviting you to look at a pattern that might be quietly shaping your sex life without you realizing it. We’re talking about what happens when sex becomes a way to soothe anxiety, seek reassurance, or calm uncomfortable emotions instead of a place of desire and connection. I share real examples of how this shows up in marriages, why it feels helpful in the moment, and why it often leaves both partners feeling disconnected afterward. Most importantly, we explore what becomes possible when sex no longer has to carry the weight of proving everything is okay. If you want a sex life that feels lighter, more present, and rooted in genuine connection, this episode is for you.

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