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Episode 376 – The Enneagram And Sex

  • Post published:July 4, 2025
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Why do you react the way you do in sexual situations, whether it’s craving something specific, avoiding certain dynamics, or feeling stuck in the same patterns? And why does your…

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Episode 375 – Sexual Discipline

  • Post published:June 27, 2025
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What if sexual discipline isn’t about restriction, but about freedom? In this episode, I’m exploring a concept that doesn’t get much airtime in Christian marriage spaces: sexual discipline within marriage.…

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Episode 374 – The Marriage Is Great…Except for Sex

  • Post published:June 20, 2025
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You’ve probably heard it, or maybe even said it: “Our marriage is great… except for the sex.” On the surface, it sounds minor. The friendship is solid, the parenting is…

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Episode 373 – When You Feel Stuck in Your Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:June 13, 2025
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In this episode, we’re diving into something that can quietly wear down even the strongest relationships: the Two-Choice Dilemma, a concept from Dr. David Schnarch. It’s what happens when you…

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Episode 372 – Better Sex Isn’t About Technique

  • Post published:June 6, 2025
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What I often see from those who listen to this podcast, or even from my clients, is that they want a quick fix to their problems in the bedroom. They…

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Episode 371 – Why Do They Want To Try That?

  • Post published:May 30, 2025
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When your spouse suggests trying something new sexually, like a different position, a toy, or even roleplay, it can catch you off guard. Maybe your first thought is, “Where did…

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Episode 370 – When It Feels Like It’s Never Enough

  • Post published:May 23, 2025
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Have you ever felt like no matter how much you grow or how open you are to trying new things, it still doesn’t feel like enough for your partner? Maybe…

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Episode 369 – Are You Initiating Too Much?

  • Post published:May 16, 2025
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Are you the one who always initiates sex in your relationship, and you’re starting to feel burnt out by it? In this episode, we explore a common dynamic I see…

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Episode 368 – Are You Prioritizing “Your” Kind of Sex Over Connection?

  • Post published:May 9, 2025
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Do you ever feel frustrated when your spouse doesn’t want sex the same way, or as often, as you do? In this episode, we explore how rigid expectations around sex…

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Episode 367 – Making Sex Cleanup Simple & Stress-Free

  • Post published:May 2, 2025
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Ever found yourself pulled out of a beautiful, intimate moment by the thought, “Ugh, now I have to clean up”? You’re definitely not alone. For many women, post-sex cleanup can…

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Episode 366 – The Law of Intimacy

  • Post published:April 25, 2025
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What if the covenants we make in the Temple are more than just promises—what if they’re a roadmap to deeper connection and intimacy? In this episode, we’re diving into the…

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Episode 365 – Who Controls The Sex In Your Marriage?

  • Post published:April 18, 2025
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Does sex in your marriage ever feel like a power struggle? You're not alone. Whether you're the partner who wants sex more often or the one who wants it less,…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)

    In this episode of Sex for Saints, I walk through the six stages of marriage and explain why so many couples feel stuck, disconnected, or ready to give up around stage three. I break down what each stage looks like in real life, from the honeymoon phase to frustration, growth, true love, and legacy, using real client stories to show what’s actually happening beneath the conflict. We talk about why stage three feels like failure, how emotional triggers and unmet needs collide there, and why this stage is not a sign you married the wrong person but an invitation to learn new relationship skills. I also explain how emotional regulation, boundary setting, and clean communication move couples into deeper intimacy, passion, and long-term connection. If your marriage feels hard right now, this episode will help you understand where you are and what it takes to move forward together instead of drifting apart.

    Source: The six stages framework referenced in this episode comes from mental.aspect on Instagram.

    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
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