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respect vs. objectification in marriage

Episode 349 – Objectifying Your Spouse

  • Post published:December 27, 2024
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Men and women have been conditioned to think that the word “objectifying” is bad. True, it can feel unsettling but sexual relationships thrive when there is a sense of desire…

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Episode 348 – Sexual Surrendering

  • Post published:December 20, 2024
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In this episode, I am going to explore the topic of Sexual Surrender. What does it mean to fully open up, not just physically, but emotionally and mentally with your…

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Episode 347 – Sexual Introverts vs Sexual Extroverts

  • Post published:December 13, 2024
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As with most things, introverts and extroverts approach sex differently. Where introverts often prefer to have time to prepare, extroverts love spontaneity. So when an extrovert marries an introvert, there…

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Episode 346 – How To Get More Connection

  • Post published:December 6, 2024
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We, as humans, are wired for connection, but connection, especially in marriage, is more than just a feeling. It’s the thing that keeps us going through the inevitable ups and…

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Episode 345 – Building a Collaborative Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:November 29, 2024
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Creating a collaborative sexual relationship is so important to your marriage. Collaboration is different from compromise where it’s not just about teamwork, or giving in, but about a mutual commitment…

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Episode 344 – Sexual Caretaking

  • Post published:November 22, 2024
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Do you find yourself worrying more about your partner during your sexual experience than you do yourself? When we feel overly responsible for other’s emotional or physical experience during sex,…

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Latter-day Life Coaches Podcast

  • Post published:November 19, 2024
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I got to join Heather from the LDS Life Coaches podcast to talk about the complex topic of sexual desire in marriage. We focused on the common challenges of different…

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Episode 343 – Sexual Shame

  • Post published:November 15, 2024
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In this episode, we are going to address a topic that so many struggle with but often don’t talk about: sexual shame. Many carry the burden of sexual shame and…

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Episode 342 – Rekindling Love and Attraction

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Do you know the #1 thing that people google to get to my website? “I’m not attracted to my spouse.” Relationships are a complex thing and it’s natural to have…

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Episode 341 – Building More Gratitude Into Your Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:November 1, 2024
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Thanksgiving is a natural time to talk about what we’re grateful for, but we often forget to include our sexual relationship on that list. Gratitude is such a powerful force…

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Episode 340 – Four Reasons She’s Not In The Mood

  • Post published:October 25, 2024
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Desire is a topic that comes up a lot in my coaching business. Couples often wonder why she's just not in the mood so in this episode, we're going to…

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Episode 339 – Sexual Leftovers

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Have you ever felt like your sex life is stuck in a predictable, comfortable routine? It’s not unusual to feel this way but how do you get out of it?…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    Have you ever caught yourself wondering, “Did I marry the right person?” I want to show you why that question is actually leading you in the wrong direction and what matters so much more. In this episode, I break down the two things that truly determine whether a relationship will work, and what to do when you feel like you’re the only one trying. We’ll talk about how to shift the dynamic in your marriage, how to evaluate whether it’s sustainable, and how to stay grounded in your own integrity no matter what your spouse chooses. If you’ve been feeling stuck, discouraged, or unsure about your relationship, this conversation will give you a completely new way to look at it.

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