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Read more about the article Episode 66 – Attachment & Emotional Safety

Episode 66 – Attachment & Emotional Safety

  • Post published:July 26, 2019
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How can you feel emotionally safe in your relationship? How can you try to help your spouse feel emotionally safe?

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Read more about the article Episode 65 – Receiving Love

Episode 65 – Receiving Love

  • Post published:July 19, 2019
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How do you become a good receiver of love? That’s what we are talking about on this week’s episode.

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Read more about the article Episode 64 – When Your Sex Life Isn’t What You Expected

Episode 64 – When Your Sex Life Isn’t What You Expected

  • Post published:July 12, 2019
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Find out how you can make sex better for you on this week’s episode.

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Read more about the article Episode 63  – Wanting More From Your Spouse

Episode 63 – Wanting More From Your Spouse

  • Post published:July 5, 2019
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Why do we always want more than what we have? What happens when we get it?

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Read more about the article Episode 62 – Accepting Your Spouse’s Bad Behaviors

Episode 62 – Accepting Your Spouse’s Bad Behaviors

  • Post published:June 28, 2019
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In today’s podcast, we discuss how learning to accept your spouse and loving them for who they are actually feels so much better and sets you free.

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Read more about the article Episode 61  – Confidence vs. Self-Confidence

Episode 61 – Confidence vs. Self-Confidence

  • Post published:June 21, 2019
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How does confidence or the lack thereof show up in your marriage?

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Read more about the article Episode 60 – The Law of Chastity in Marriage

Episode 60 – The Law of Chastity in Marriage

  • Post published:June 14, 2019
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We most often associate the Law of Chastity with the youth or young single adults. But, as married couples, the Law of Chastity still very much applies to us.

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Read more about the article Episode 59 – Self Regulation

Episode 59 – Self Regulation

  • Post published:June 7, 2019
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How will regulating myself help my marriage?

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Read more about the article Episode 58  – How To Create An Amazing Marriage

Episode 58 – How To Create An Amazing Marriage

  • Post published:May 31, 2019
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Want to know the secrets of how to create an amazing marriage? Find out how!

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Read more about the article Episode 57  – Believing New Thoughts

Episode 57 – Believing New Thoughts

  • Post published:May 24, 2019
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A belief is just a thought you’ve practiced a lot.  It’s one you accept as truth.  But you can choose to believe whatever you want about yourself, your life, and…

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Read more about the article Episode 56 – Involuntary Thoughts

Episode 56 – Involuntary Thoughts

  • Post published:May 17, 2019
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What should do you do about those pesky thoughts that just keep coming up?

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Episode 55 – The “What If” Game

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Do you worry? In this episode, we talk about a little game I like to play that helps your brain see there is nothing to worry about after all.

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 415 – The ABC Loop: How to Stop Pressuring Your Spouse About Sex

    If you’ve been trying everything to fix your sex life and nothing seems to be working, this episode might feel a little uncomfortable, but also like a breath of fresh air. I’m sharing why the harder you push for connection, the more distance you might actually be creating, and what’s really going on underneath that dynamic. We’ll talk about the subtle pressure that shows up in relationships (even with the best intentions) and why it can shut desire down completely. I’ll walk you through a simple but powerful framework called the ABC Loop that helps you create change without resistance. If you’re tired of feeling rejected or stuck, this episode will give you a completely different way to approach intimacy.

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