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Episode 13 – Patience

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In this podcast I talk about what patience is, what it means to be patient, how we can develop patience, and how important patience is in our marriage. Play in…

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Episode 12 – Changing Your Past

  • Post published:July 13, 2018
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So when you think about your past, are there things you don’t like about it?  Are there maybe some good parts that you have forgotten or ignored?  Let me show…

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Episode 11 – Other People’s Opinions Are None of Your Business

  • Post published:July 6, 2018
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Are you one of those people who gets offended by what other people say?  If someone says something about you, does it hurt you?  Let me teach you why other…

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Episode 10 – Challenging Relationships

  • Post published:June 29, 2018
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Whether you are dealing with a spouse, boss, or neighbor, you often have challenging relationships.  In this podcast I’ll share how you can make them work for you no matter…

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Episode 9 – Getting Through An Anxiety Attack

  • Post published:June 22, 2018
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Do you or someone you love suffer from anxiety attacks? So does someone in my family.  Here is how I help them get through it, and it can help you…

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Episode 8 – My Journey to Mental Health

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In this podcast I get super vulnerable and share with you my own personal journey to mental health.  I hope you’ll listen and then come leave me some feedback! Play…

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Episode 7 – What is Mental Health?

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What is mental health? How do get to be mentally healthy and how do we maintain it? In this podcast I will share with you: 4 Things Mentally Healthy People…

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Episode 6 – Grief

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Losing someone can be one of the hardest experiences we have as humans.  In today’s podcast I share with you 8 ways you can support others through grief. Play in…

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Episode 5 – Fear

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Are you living your life out of fear? Fear of the unknown? Fear of being hurt? Fear of failure? Fear of judgement? Fear of your emotions? Fear keeps us stuck and…

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Read more about the article Episode 4 – Identifying and Processing Emotion

Episode 4 – Identifying and Processing Emotion

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Have you spent your whole life avoiding negative emotions?  Do you stuff them down or resist them at all costs?  Chances are you were never taught how to identify and…

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Episode 3 – Forgiveness

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We all know that we SHOULD forgive, but sometimes we don't know how.  When it's something big and the pain is too great, how do we move past it and…

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Episode 2 – Confidence

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How to build confidence in yourself so that you can be happier and show up better in your marriage and other relationships. Play in a new window Download Show Notes:…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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