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Read more about the article Episode 92 – Discovering What Turns You On

Episode 92 – Discovering What Turns You On

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It's time to develop your erotic mind.

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Episode 82 – Sex Rules

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We all have rules and expectations with sex. Do you know yours?

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Read more about the article Episode 79 – Why I Believe

Episode 79 – Why I Believe

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My Testimony of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints

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Read more about the article Episode 78 – Guilt, Shame, and Eroticism

Episode 78 – Guilt, Shame, and Eroticism

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In a recent survey I conducted, 40% of married women said they feel guilt and shame about sex.  In this episode, we are addressing where this guilt and shame are…

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Read more about the article Episode 77 – Rejection

Episode 77 – Rejection

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Do you often reject your spouse’s advances for sex?  Do you feel rejected by them?  Rejection is a huge issue for many couples.  Find out why we feel rejected and…

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Read more about the article Episode 76 – Default Sex Thoughts

Episode 76 – Default Sex Thoughts

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What thoughts does your brain offer to you when you think about sex?

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Read more about the article Episode 75 – The Big “O”

Episode 75 – The Big “O”

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This week's episode is all about orgasms. What are they? What do you they feel like? What keeps you from having one?   Play in a new window Download Show Summary:…

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Read more about the article Episode 73 – I’m Not In The Mood

Episode 73 – I’m Not In The Mood

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What things put you in the mood? What things don’t?

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Read more about the article Episode 72 – I’m Not Attracted to My Spouse

Episode 72 – I’m Not Attracted to My Spouse

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What happens when you find yourself not attracted to your spouse anymore?

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Episode 70 – Changing Our Beliefs About Sex

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What do you believe about sex and how does that shape your relationship with yourself and your spouse?

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Read more about the article Episode 69 – Asking Good Questions

Episode 69 – Asking Good Questions

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Seek the wisdom in your own brain by asking good questions.

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Episode 68 – Watching Your Brain

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Do you ever watch yourself think?

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

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    In this episode, we’re diving into a powerful idea I recently heard on the Sex Therapy 101 podcast – a conversation between Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers and my friend Dr. Cami Hurst. Dr. Sellers shared a thought-provoking insight about the difference between sex drive and sexual desire. It’s something we’ve touched on before, but today I want to give it the attention it deserves. This is one of the most misunderstood concepts in marriage, and I truly believe that understanding this difference might just revolutionize your relationship. Let’s unpack it together.

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