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temple covenants and marriage

Episode 366 – The Law of Intimacy

  • Post published:April 25, 2025
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What if the covenants we make in the Temple are more than just promises—what if they’re a roadmap to deeper connection and intimacy? In this episode, we’re diving into the…

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Episode 365 – Who Controls The Sex In Your Marriage?

  • Post published:April 18, 2025
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Does sex in your marriage ever feel like a power struggle? You're not alone. Whether you're the partner who wants sex more often or the one who wants it less,…

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Pelvic floor therapy for men

Episode 364 – Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy for Men

  • Post published:April 11, 2025
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Katelyn Peach, Doctor of Physical Therapy, is back for this episode where we talk about pelvic floor physical therapy for men. One of the biggest misconceptions that Katelyn sees in…

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pelvic floor physical therapy

Episode 363 – Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy for Women

  • Post published:April 4, 2025
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In this episode, Katelyn Peach, who is a Doctor of Physical Therapy, is going to be speaking with us about pelvic floor physical therapy for women. She treats patients with…

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mutuality in marriage

Episode 362 – Mutuality in the Sexual Relationship

  • Post published:March 28, 2025
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Sex in marriage can sometimes feel imbalanced—one person initiates while the other holds the power to say yes or no, or one partner’s needs take priority over the other’s. But…

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sexual transmutation

Episode 361 – Sexual Transmutation

  • Post published:March 21, 2025
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We often think of sexual energy as just desire, attraction, or physical connection—but what if it’s so much more? What if this energy could fuel your creativity, ambition, personal growth,…

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Seasons of Joy Podcast

  • Post published:March 18, 2025
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In this eye-opening conversation, I chatted with Jill Pack, a life and relationship coach. We talked about how midlife women can embrace their sexuality and find wholeness. Listen to it…

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external control in relationships

Episode 360 – Your Sexual Locus of Control

  • Post published:March 14, 2025
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I often hear from my clients the phrase, “If only…” If only my spouse would want more sex, then I could stop feeling so frustrated. If only my spouse would…

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Episode 359 – Why “Do You Love Me” Is the Wrong Question

  • Post published:March 7, 2025
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We’ve all said it at one time or another - “Do you love me?” While it seems like an innocent question, what I’ve found from working with countless couples is…

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good boy syndrome

Episode 358 – Overcoming Good Boy Syndrome

  • Post published:February 28, 2025
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Have you ever wondered if men experience the same pressures to be 'good' that women do? Last week, we uncovered the hidden struggles of Good Girl Syndrome—but what about the…

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Episode 357 – Overcoming Good Girl Syndrome

  • Post published:February 21, 2025
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What is Good Girl Syndrome? Let me answer like this - have you ever found yourself hesitating to explore your desires? Have you ever felt guilty when expressing your needs…

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Episode 356 – Sexual Freedom

  • Post published:February 14, 2025
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Have you ever thought about what drives your sexual desire? One key factor is the freedom we feel in our lives. Freedom plays a vital role in fostering vibrant sexuality…

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    As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!

    In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire

    When a woman says she’d be completely fine never having sex again, I know something important has already broken. In this episode, I unpack why so many women in faith-based marriages end up here, even when they once loved sex, and how obligation, pressure, and shame quietly kill desire over time. I walk through both sides of this dynamic, explaining why men often respond with more pursuit and why that panic makes things worse instead of better. I also share what actually helps desire return, including understanding responsive desire, removing pressure, rebuilding trust through touch without agenda, and learning skills most of us were never taught. If sex has started to feel like duty instead of connection, this episode shows why that happened and what makes real desire possible again.

    Episode 410 – When Obligation Kills Desire
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    Episode 409 – Wanting to Be Desired and Chosen
    February 20, 2026
    Episode 408 – The Six Stages of Marriage (And Why Many Quit at Stage 3)
    February 13, 2026
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    Episode 401 – Lies Your Brain Tells You About Sex
    December 26, 2025
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